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How to plan a Christmas murder mystery party

By the Tofu Labs team · 7 minute read

Christmas is the best time of year for a murder mystery party. People are already in the mood for a long evening, there's a table full of food anyway, and a snowed-in village with a suspicious mince pie is about as cozy as murder gets.

Here is how we'd plan one, from the first invitation to the reveal.

Pick your date early

December weekends fill up fast. Send a save-the-date at least three weeks ahead, and four if your friends have children or office parties to juggle. The week between Christmas and New Year's is often easier: people are home, rested and looking for something to do.

Choose a game that fits your group

Your groupWhat works
6 to 12 friends or family with teensA hosted party game with characters, like Murder at the Robin & Kettle.
Just the two of youA Christmas puzzle case, such as Silent Night at Hollybrook, over a few evenings.
Puzzle lovers who want to make it lastA mystery advent calendar like Murder at Hollybrook Hall: one clue a day from December 1, the killer named on Christmas Eve.
A family gathering with young kidsA Christmas escape room for the children, like The Great Sleigh Rescue, while the grown-ups cook.

Keep it cozy rather than creepy. A Christmas party often has a grandparent or a twelve-year-old at the table, and a game with no gore keeps everyone in.

Murder at the Robin & Kettle booklets on a table with walnuts and pine cones
Our Christmas party game is set in a snowed-in village inn on Christmas Eve, during a cake contest.

Three weeks before

Two weeks before: invitations with a costume idea

Christmas costumes are easy because everyone owns something festive. Give each character one simple prop: the choirmaster gets a scarf, the baker an apron, Father Christmas a red hat. A Christmas jumper counts as a costume.

Three character invitations for a Christmas murder mystery party
Invitations name the character, give a costume idea and say which cake they'll bring to the contest.

The menu, round by round

Match the food to the rounds and the evening paces itself.

Tofu's tip: make dessert ahead. You don't want to be whipping cream in the kitchen while the killer is being unmasked.

Set the scene

You don't need to redecorate. Turn the big light off and use fairy lights and candles. Put on quiet Christmas music without lyrics, so it doesn't fight the conversation. Lay one "evidence" item on the side table: an empty mug, a torn letter, a single suspicious mince pie.

On the night

Allow about two and a half to three hours. Read the opening out loud with the lights low, then run one round per course. Before the reveal, give everyone five quiet minutes to write their accusation down. Writing it first means nobody can claim afterwards that they "knew all along".

Detective notes, accusation sheets and award cards
Accusation sheets and award cards. Our favourite is The Golden Mince Pie.

If someone cancels

December colds happen. If an extra role drops out, simply leave that character out. If a main character cancels, give the part to the most confident guest who has an extra role, and send them the booklet that afternoon. Check what your game's host guide says too: a good one tells you which parts can be dropped.

Still want more Christmas mystery?

A mystery advent calendar is a nice way to stretch the fun through December. Ours, Murder at Hollybrook Hall, has 24 small puzzles and a killer to name on Christmas Eve. It comes as a set of 24 door pages and as a paperback.

Games mentioned in this guide